One of the key points to a perfecr relationship is keeping it
slow. Me personally I'm not a fan of having sex with someone the first
date. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind it but for me a sets me in a
new mind state when it comes to the person. I find that taking time
with sex and trust is perfect. Its human nature to a certain extent to
withhold from trust. I personally can't have sex with someone I don't
trust. Sex is something you should share with someone you have a great
connection with. How many times have you slept with someone you barely
knew and it was unfilling. There's a lack of a connection. It might be
good or just okay but why settle for less when you can have
phenominal. When you know someone better there's more of connection
when having sex. Its more than just sex then. It becomes an emotional
driven situation where both parties don't just fuck. From the gentile
touch to the cuddling after. It means way more.
The word love is powerful. Nothing means more than that word or
hold so much power. It can be the greatest thing used at the right
time with the right person. I can't stress it enough never and I mean
never use it if you don't mean it. Some may confuse love for a crush
or the infamous puppy love. There's a huge differance between loving
someone and being in love with someone. I love a lot of people but
wouldn't do a fraction of what I would do for someone I'm in love
with. That's the differance. I wouldn't go above and beyond for
someone I love. That's something you do for those you can't live
without.
How do you know your in love? You have to ask yourself, can you
go on with your life after their not around? Can you imagine yourself
with someone else? Can you deal with your partners flaws and continue
being with them knowing there are certain things about them you don't
like? There far more complicated questions you can ask yourself to
know the truth on what kind of feelings you have for someone.
With that said I explain what I call the don't rush theory. I say
this because many people for example say it when its said to them.
That's a huge no no. You are not obligated to feel the same for
someone as they do for you. Everyone is different. We don't fall in
love the same or for the same reason. Our standards are never gonna be
the same. So when you get in that situation be honest and tell them
how you feel. Once again honesty can only make your path clearer.
Either they respect you and continue pursuing your love or you just
weed out another person you don't need in your life. The other
negative point about using that word in the wrong way is when you
confuse having love, for for being in love with. This is why time can
only be your best friend. You may think this is it 7 months down the
line but the next day can be the breaking point where your no longer
feeling the same. You'll know your not in Love when that time comes.
Love is ever lasting if your truly in love you won't lose that
feeling.
We all know that years down the line or months that we tend to
slowly grow tired or you ma see your boyfriend or girlfriend is not
the same person you "fell in love with." This happens because we all
fall for the frauds and the fakes. We've all been guilty of giving
more and showing a different side just to get that persons attention
and affection. Another no no. Cause your just setting yourself up to
live a lie or fall for one. In time truth comes to the light. Allow
yourself to fall in love with something real and to also allow someone
to get to know someone real. It will only work out in your benefit.
Happy Valentines day to everyone and I wish you all the best.
Spend the day with someone special and truly show them how special
they are to you.
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Keep in mind I am not a professional and all these posts are just
based off my observations and failed personal experiences. Don't hold
my words to be final for they are only my opinions.
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