Just To Make It Clear

     Sorry for being late with this post yall but i also want to apologize for going on a tangent with this blog post. Today i will not talk about relationships specifically but a little more in depth on my point of view. It has been brought to my attention that my blogs have been a tad bit harsh and blunt. Some have told me that i seem to have a negative view on relationships. To those who have those beliefs i will definitely make my point clear and to the point. I have no negative views on relationships. I just don't need to speak on all of the positive points of a relationship. Many people can relate to these situations and scenerios that i speak of. I only like to show people that there are methods to making a relationship last. These are all situations i have dealt with first hand or situations that i have heard of. So to those who believe i just have negative feelings towards relationships, why would i offer advice in making it better if i feel so negative about it? I look at it like this if you have bad times, it will only make your relationship stronger when you weather the storm.
     I believe Love is the greatest feeling and strongest emotion when done right and most importantly when its with the right person. Nothing can break such a bond and nothing can destroy what love creates. My advice is only to help better anothers relationship that may have gone south and those who are in love are trying to mend.
     So to those who felt the way they did i hope this cleared it up for you. Thanks for reading the HeartBreak Kid blog brought to you by BlokVille and always remember:
 
     Keep in mind I am not a professional and all these posts are just based off my observations and failed personal experiences. Don't hold my words to be final for they are only my opinions.

And So The Honeymoon Ends

     So I'm assuming you never took my advice when it comes to making the honeymoon last. Possibly you may have followed your heart and devoted 100% of what you had into your better half. That's beautiful and I wish you the best, but to those who didn't have the same outcome there's still hope. Your possibly dealing with multiple issues. From feeling smothered to fights about the most petty of situations. I've learned that when you devote so much time to one person and then immediately start wanted space, leads to some insecurities. Such as no longer feeling wanted or possibly being cheated on. If your having the feeling being little smothered or are smothering your man/ woman. Now unfortunately your forced to do what I advised last week. Now space is more important than ever. Think about maybe separate vacations. Or even taking a couple weekends to catch up with your friends and family. Its definitely gonna be hard to get use to but its a great remedy. When you begin to get accustom to this change devote at least 2 weekends with friends and family a month.
    If you have the other issue of constant bickering and petty fights then not only time apart is enough. This is when you have to decide if its an argument worth fighting about. A large problem with many stubborn people such as myself to know when to give up. Some battles aint worth the drama. When you find yourself getting upset and instead of arguing begin personally attacking your better half, take a breathe and calmly say you don't wanna talk at the moment and ask for time to vent. Walk away from dumb arguments. Trust me it helps. By the time you cool off you barely care about the issue at hand. Never fight in public and never try to discuss anything when your upset. Your pride kicks in and leads to bigger issues. But if your other half insists on discussing it while your upset, sorry but get them legs moving, or hang up the phone trust me they are already mad so who cares bout what they want your saving yourself from something worse than a simple meaningless argument.

Thanks for reading the HeartBreak Kid blog brought to you by BlokVille and always remember:
  
     Keep in mind I am not a professional and all these posts are just based off my observations and failed personal experiences. Don't hold my words to be final for they are only my opinions.

And So The Honeymoon Begins

     So your started your relationship and you have this inexplicable infatuation with your other half. This I say is this best feeling in the world. This portion of the relationship is what we call, "The Honeymoon." This is the beginning of the relationship. This is where in my opinion the biggest mistakes are made in the construction of a great relationship. In my opinion this is where you'll do anything to see your other half happy. From the extended 5 hour phones calls to the random "I miss you" text messages come. The Honeymoon stage is where most people create the lies and false impressions. I know your asking yourself how so? how does this occur? Well many times we are so involved in creating these magic moments and other times focused on creating the perfect counter-part that we lose ourselves in the lies. For some its just "game", but for others they just wanna be that perfect accomadation to the object of their affection. That's a plus to a certain extent but in the end it always back fires. But there are tricks to keeping that honeymoon alive. For example, you have those moments where you are so hooked where you lose contact with friends and spend most of your time with your partner. Like I've said multiple times before, "absense makes the heart grow fonder." Though it may be hard to spend time apart, try it out. When you finally see each other it'll be worth it.

     Thanks for reading the HeartBreak Kid blog brought to you by BlokVille and always remember:
   
     Keep in mind I am not a professional and all these posts are just based off my observations and failed personal experiences. Don't hold my words to be final for they are only my opinions.