And So The Honeymoon Ends

     So I'm assuming you never took my advice when it comes to making the honeymoon last. Possibly you may have followed your heart and devoted 100% of what you had into your better half. That's beautiful and I wish you the best, but to those who didn't have the same outcome there's still hope. Your possibly dealing with multiple issues. From feeling smothered to fights about the most petty of situations. I've learned that when you devote so much time to one person and then immediately start wanted space, leads to some insecurities. Such as no longer feeling wanted or possibly being cheated on. If your having the feeling being little smothered or are smothering your man/ woman. Now unfortunately your forced to do what I advised last week. Now space is more important than ever. Think about maybe separate vacations. Or even taking a couple weekends to catch up with your friends and family. Its definitely gonna be hard to get use to but its a great remedy. When you begin to get accustom to this change devote at least 2 weekends with friends and family a month.
    If you have the other issue of constant bickering and petty fights then not only time apart is enough. This is when you have to decide if its an argument worth fighting about. A large problem with many stubborn people such as myself to know when to give up. Some battles aint worth the drama. When you find yourself getting upset and instead of arguing begin personally attacking your better half, take a breathe and calmly say you don't wanna talk at the moment and ask for time to vent. Walk away from dumb arguments. Trust me it helps. By the time you cool off you barely care about the issue at hand. Never fight in public and never try to discuss anything when your upset. Your pride kicks in and leads to bigger issues. But if your other half insists on discussing it while your upset, sorry but get them legs moving, or hang up the phone trust me they are already mad so who cares bout what they want your saving yourself from something worse than a simple meaningless argument.

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     Keep in mind I am not a professional and all these posts are just based off my observations and failed personal experiences. Don't hold my words to be final for they are only my opinions.